Hello You,
Your relationship is in full effect and you need to get to bidness! If you’re unmarried, your relationship prep oughta be “ON” right now! Either way, if you’re a part of the Love Thang Village, you knowing praying for better days without any work doesn’t work.
Part of your mind is wondering, where are they going with this? Get your mind open to the idea of more sensuality.
There are 3 groups of sexuality…sexual trance, role play and partner engagement. First, each one is much more expansive than the name suggests. Many of you may wanna give more emphasis to the sexual trance.
Why? Cause you don’t pay attention to the bodily sensations of your emotions and physical signs often. Hence, you’re also missing out on the sensations of intimacy. Pay attention to the cues your body sends even with passionate stimulation. To engage in a sexual trance, touch your spouse and describe the awareness in your body. Let your spouse know what areas are stimulated and alert.
For role play, of course, it can be the obvious, but we’re going to introduce something else to you. Visit role play as story telling. Describe a scene to your spouse. Give details of the setting, the light and other senses in the story. Each of you add to the story line.
Please notice, we’ve given you 2 ideas for increased sensuality and not one has involved the act of sex. Because being attuned and connected is a part of sex many couples skip.
Nah…go back and get that part! We’ve saved the best for last…partner engagement.
Picture this…”What do I do that feels good to you?”…”How do I know when I’ve pleased you the most?”…”When have you felt the safest with me sexually?”. Partner engagement is the moment you get sensual information about one another. Don’t assume you know everything. And if you know, ask a question about it.
Everything can be improved upon, including the shared sensations of your relationship.
