Hello You! Communication is a foundation of any valuable relationship. Do you agree? It isn’t the main one. Commitment is required before anyone says a what. We’re gonna give you 2 changes you can pledge to do right now! Men and women often labor to powwow effectively with each other, which can lead to frustration, […]
Have you ever heard or said, “I just don’t feel it….” Some folks consider this a snide remark, but this is a common relationship issue. The “IT” factor of your relationship loses the spark or you never developed one for the person. What does it mean to have an emotional connection?To be in emotional alignment […]
Hello You There are folks who paused on making friends prior to the pandemic. We get it. Being friendly and socializing requires ongoing effort and trusting new folks can be hard. When I moved to Atlanta in 2013, I cried daily for 3 months. I wanted to be with THE HIM, but I missed the […]
Did a parent or anyone ever remind you to follow the rules? Rules are everywhere and often, are definitively detailed. Don’t sit here. Don’t trespass. No shirt or shoes-no service. These are all kinda self-explanatory. There are also the middle ground areas. Such as… Wear your mask at all times UNLESS fully vaccinated or with an […]
Hello Painful moments are cues. They give us signals. Kinda like a stop sign. If you were to see a stop sign without any letters, you would innately have the mind to stop. The color and shape of the stop sign give a message. People give messages too. Red flags are messages. A red flag could […]
Hello Have you been bungee jumping or you won’t go because you’re terrified? For those who have children, were you concerned about the terrible two’s before they began? Has there been a chance you wanted to take or a job you wanted to apply for until someone rattled off the risks? Before covid, I tried hard […]
Hello It’s a short and sweet reason why we’re up at 3 am creating gratitude action plans for ya’ll. It’s cause ya’ll matter to us. We have a philosophy we try to keep. Never to give someone a resource they can’t use. It’s like giving someone the recipe and all of the ingredients for tuna […]
Hello You! Ya’ll know we use authentic speaking language in our writing style and when working with us one-on-one. We even wrote our premarital guide, Selection Perfection, using this same conversational style. Folks say, ” I keep it one hunnit!” often, but don’t speak in 100% terms. Please don’t take this to mean we’re suggesting to be “brutally […]
Hello Imagine someone invited you to an event. You don’t wanna go. You tell the person,”I can’t. The older kids will be gone, but I’ll have my 8 year old.” Or, you say, “That’s the weekend my husband is off work. I can’t make it.” The person says, “No worries, bring’em with you!” Now, you […]
We wrapped up counseling sessions this month that have us feeling like the Energizer Bunny. We are both super pumped about what’s coming next. The mojo we’ve seen has us thinking about opening couples’ classes so others can feel this. We know you share our sentiments when we say “two heads are better than one.” However, when those same […]
