Practical Questions To Uncover Relationship Red Flags

Hello

Let’s have some real talk. It’s time for the tea! Earl Grey or Chai for you?

Couples need to assess the health of their relationship before marriage regularly. Read that again! BEFORE!

To help, here are some questions you and Bae can ask each other.

1. Do we communicate openly and often?

2. Are our expectations about the future aligned?

3. Do we respect each other’s boundaries and personal space?

4. Is there a balance in our relationship or does one person seem to be doing all the heavy lifting?

5. Are your needs being met?

6. Are communication breakdowns a recurring issue?

7. Are there any unaddressed issues that keep resurfacing?

8. How does Bae react when you express disagreement?

9. How frequently do you feel cared for versus uncared?

10. Does Bae support your personal goals and ambitions and how do you know?

11. Do you find yourself making excuses for Bae’s behavior to yourself or others? What are you trying to keep hidden?

Folks often steer clear of these questions. The reason? Good ol’ fashioned fear. Fear of digging up conflict, fear of facing difficult truths, and fear of upsetting the comfortable status quo. Do you know what to do with the data from these questions? You don’t get an answer and move to the next one. Hmmmm….inquiring minds wanna know!

You know how you get anxious when the check engine light comes on in the car? It doesn’t benefit you to ignore this cue. Same for this glaring light shining in your face! Avoiding these questions can lead to complications down the road. It can brew up a storm of resentment. Then, the emotional distance can become more about loneliness than love.

Addressing these issues head-on is timely maintenance for your relationship. Ignoring them could lead to a bumpy ride, potentially causing damage that’s hard to repair.

Now, how can you efficiently address these issues? Our premarital guide is your ticket to a smoother journey. It’s like your relationship’s personal driver. Guiding you through every twist and turn. This guide is filled with exercises, activities, and advice to easily spot and tackle any red flags in your relationship!

This book is your solution. It will guide you to express yourself clearly and openly, ensuring both you and Bae feel heard, understood, and valued. Yes!

See ya soon,

THE HIM and Naaila