You Have Work To Do…Sensually!


Hello You,

Your relationship is in full effect and you need to get to bidness! If you’re unmarried, your relationship prep oughta be “ON” right now! Either way, if you’re a part of the Love Thang Village, you knowing praying for better days without any work doesn’t work.

Part of your mind is wondering, where are they going with this? Get your mind open to the idea of more sensuality.

There are 3 groups of sexuality…sexual trance, role play and partner engagement. First, each one is much more expansive than the name suggests. Many of you may wanna give more emphasis to the sexual trance.

Why? Cause you don’t pay attention to the bodily sensations of your emotions and physical signs often. Hence, you’re also missing out on the sensations of intimacy. Pay attention to the cues your body sends even with passionate stimulation. To engage in a sexual trance, touch your spouse and describe the awareness in your body. Let your spouse know what areas are stimulated and alert.

For role play, of course, it can be the obvious, but we’re going to introduce something else to you. Visit role play as story telling. Describe a scene to your spouse. Give details of the setting, the light and other senses in the story. Each of you add to the story line.

Please notice, we’ve given you 2 ideas for increased sensuality and not one has involved the act of sex. Because being attuned and connected is a part of sex many couples skip.

Nah…go back and get that part! We’ve saved the best for last…partner engagement.

Picture this…”What do I do that feels good to you?”…”How do I know when I’ve pleased you the most?”…”When have you felt the safest with me sexually?”. Partner engagement is the moment you get sensual information about one another. Don’t assume you know everything. And if you know, ask a question about it.

Everything can be improved upon, including the shared sensations of your relationship. 

See you soon,


Hasan and Naaila

Work Less and Get More…

Ya’ll in it to win it… So how do you make sure you win every time?

Hello Winners in the Love Thang Village! 

This village is full of winners! This is the momentum on this Love Plateau!

We’re about to pour the tea on how you can love more and stomp out anything keeping you from it.

What was the Relationship Killer lurking around you this week? Last week?

Did you apologize, buy a gift, isolate yourself, try to bite your tongue or have more sex to try to put the brakes on an issue beating down your relationship?

Now, ya’ll still together so you did something! Whatever it was. No relationship can survive without effort. At least not a loving and sustainable relationship.

Ya’ll may have made some headway or you let it go. God willing, ya’ll found some toe-curling action each of you like.

We’ve got an idea for you that has gotten hundreds of couples back on track.

We’ve got an idea for you that had folks running to get married.

We’ve got an idea we’ve seen work, again and again, and quickly.

You see where we’re going with this? Flood the right actions into your relationship and you can secure the love bag while doing less!

NEVER CEASE AND DESIST on the small gestures and words that got the attention of each other. Don’t stop doing what you were doing at the beginning!

Remember the $5 gift you bought her and she lit up for no reason? Imagine what another one would do!

Don’t forget the time you made something special for him, just because, and he loved it!

What was the sweet name you used to call each other? Do it again!

See how easy it is! You already have an arsenal of goodness to use. Use this must-have skill to pull in more of what you want to see and to feel from one another.

Can’t think of anything? ASK!

“Baby, what was something I used to do that made you feel good about me?”

The reality is this. You can keep doing what you’re doing-trying to guess what it is or believe you know what to do while getting it wrong- OR you can use this quick fix right now.

The choice is all yours.

Talk to you soon,

Hasan “THE HIM” and Naaila