Love Is Blind

During our first year of marriage, I recall Hasan trying to hang curtains for me. He was legally blind at the time. He pretended to be able to see much more than he could. He tapped at the wall so gently. I thought he feared damaging the house. He could barely see the wall!! […]

For Better or Worse

Marriage sounds really good until it feels like the worst decision you’ve ever made. Tomorrow night, at 9 pm, we will share some of our raggedy moments. The ones that made us pause and question our choices. We’ll share our secret for what we did about it! As a bonus, you’ll be able to ask questions. […]

Shooting While White

I birthed three children of color & I don’t want anyone to kill them. Please. This morning, on their way to their summer leadership program, I reminded them of their flaws & the 400 y… […]

About That Miracle You Didn’t Work For…

Couples often have an excuse for delaying marriage counseling.  We’ve heard, “I’m working on my health right now. Once I get it right, I know my marriage will be better.” Yo… Source: About That Miracle You Didn’t Work For… […]

Money, Marriage & Your Mindset

There should be a name for the time frame prior to marriage and before an engagement. We use the term premarital, but it is only in reference to counseling or a form of consultation. […]

The Emotional Divorce Trap

There’s divorce and then there is the period prior to the divorce. This is when a couple typically has not redefined any terms for their new relationship. It is hard to be married, and not be married. Kinda weird…. […]

Did I Marry You?

We all look for and speak of the joys of marriage. There are many of them. Ok…Done talking about those for the day! […]