Reasons You Should Go To Bed Mad

“I’m upset and you’re going to go to sleep?” “You don’t care about me at all. How dare you?” “You never want to talk about anything anyway!” “So, you want to go to sleep with this problem right now?”       The long-standing script for “Don’t Go To Bed Angry” has to be rewritten. […]

Rules for Handling Resentment

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Marriage Ain’t Always the Answer

Hello Love Thang Family Member, Ya’ll see how 2020 is fallin’ in on us! We’ve got a relationship reminder to carry you into the last days of 2019. Did anyone have an elder who’d say, “We’re living in the last days…” THE HIM and I surely did!  It’s only the last dasys of 2019 we’re referencing! […]

Reasons You Should Go To Bed Mad

“I’m upset and you’re going to go to sleep?”

“You don’t care about me at all. How dare you?”

“You never want to talk about anything anyway!”

“So, you want to go to sleep with this problem right now?”

 

 

 

The long-standing script for “Don’t Go To Bed Angry” has to be rewritten.

“Go to bed. I don’t care. I’ll be up all night with this on my mind.”
Folks, we’re gonna tell you to go to bed. If it was that bad, someone would have called a doctor, 911 or us. If none of those are on the line, go to bed!

If you’re tired, you’ll wake up, with little or no sleep, even more irritated than previously. Is it worth it? Being well-rested and not sleep-deprived goes a long way for a meaningful conversation.

Next, recollect the times you tried to argue with a sleepy person. How effective was it? Folks don’t respond well, don’t listen and often will say anything for you to leave them alone.

Furthermore, the ability to pick up on cues and to have a “Keep it a Hunnit” conversation is valuable. A sleepy person will translate body language  and facial expressions wrong.

Now you have to explain that on top of the problem you already have. You don’t need more bad communication on top of bad communication.

Lastly, folks who lack sleep can be mean and grumpy. And here you are seeking to negotiate and get a resolution with an irritated person. Each of you can have a much better conversation after getting some rest.

Our final answer is, GO TO BED MAD! You won’t wake up happy, but at least you’ll have gone to bed.

Nite Nite,

Hasan “THE HIM” and Naa’ila

 

Rules for Handling Resentment

Hello Love Thang Village!

We’re telling our business today! Don’t ya’ll tell anyone what we said! This is between us!

No really! This is a village of folks seeking relationship mastery on all levels. 

 Learn what we did when resentment showed up in our own marriage. 

It’s all there-in this video!

https://youtu.be/U5BMBBUFqLE

And what about you?

Resentment poking its head through the blinds or stalking your head and heart?

Got a family member or friend who hurt you and the nerve to act like they don’t get what he or she did?

We’re here to show you how to get more of what you want from your relationship or from yourself after someone disappointed you!

Hold on to the webinar ride to take place on Thursday and get:

… one of our well-known “nuts and bolts” plans for changing your resentment mindset

…questions to ask yourself to asses internal feelings

…”Drive and Survive” patterns fueling resentment

Get Instant Access  to with immediate “Can-Do” Methods for a resentment remedy with us, That Clay Couple. We’ve dealt with resentment, personally and cured it professionally! This link does it for you!

https://hasanandnaaila.com/product/resentment-rollercoaster-webinar/

 

Marriage Ain’t Always the Answer

Hello Love Thang Family Member,
Ya’ll see how 2020 is fallin’ in on us!
We’ve got a relationship reminder to carry you into the last days of 2019. Did anyone have an elder who’d say, “We’re living in the last days…”
THE HIM and I surely did! 😁😁
It’s only the last dasys of 2019 we’re referencing!
Check out this video..Marriage Ain’t Everything!
Yeah…we said it!