Summer School For Parents!

Love Thang Villagers,  You’re feelin’ yo’self and doin’ big things.  You got a promotion. The laundry is done. Your bills are paid. Your credit score increased and your thighs decreased. Life is leaning in your favor and you know you sizzle like the summer heat. Until it comes to parenting. When it comes to the […]

Are You Frazzled About the Past?

Hello Love Thang Village, Via social media, we discussed the best ways to argue and a key rule was to not being up the past. Makes sense right? Not to everyone. Because of this, we took it up a notch and gave more clarity for not dwelling in old stuff. Take a peek at the […]

Love Is Blind

During our first year of marriage, I recall Hasan trying to hang curtains for me. He was legally blind at the time. He pretended to be able to see much more than he could. He tapped at the wall so gently. I thought he feared damaging the house. He could barely see the wall!! […]

Summer School For Parents!

Love Thang Villagers, 

You’re feelin’ yo’self and doin’ big things. 

You got a promotion.

The laundry is done.

Your bills are paid.

Your credit score increased and your thighs decreased.

Life is leaning in your favor and you know you sizzle like the summer heat.

Until it comes to parenting. When it comes to the parent-child standoff, you can’t seem to draw your parental weaponry kit! Your child is quick on the draw. Their behavior is a knock down fight in the Wild Wild West for you.
At least it feels like it.

You’re determined to get a win. We have a few suggestions for you to switch with a quick flick of the wrist. Turning your language around is a step to changing behavior. We make no promises for your child’s reaction, but you gotta begin somewhere! If you’re feeling lost and need to adjust hat brim, we do that too. 

Be careful… Say, “What do you need to remember?”

I keep telling you the same thing… Say, “Would you like to do it on your own or have me help you?”

You should know better… Say “What did you learn from this mistake?”

What’s wrong now?… Say, “How can you take care of yourself in this moment?”

Now, there’s a second half to this. Don’t allow your son or daughter to give you an open-ended answers with the intention of putting you on ice.
Make an inquiry. Ask for specifics. Find out what their plan is. Do you need a parenting plan?
You have to teach the skill set you want to see.

Let us know what happens! 

THE HIM & Naa’ila 

Are You Frazzled About the Past?

Hello Love Thang Village,

Via social media, we discussed the best ways to argue and a key rule was to not being up the past.

Makes sense right? Not to everyone.

Because of this, we took it up a notch and gave more clarity for not dwelling in old stuff.

Take a peek at the video. Share it with a friend.

3 KEY BENEFITS For GIVING A PASS ON THE PAST- For the married couples in the Love Thang Village!

What if you could put a restraining order on having to re-hear your past offenses? Maybe you’re the one who keeps bringing out the archives because, for you, the old news continues to be present-day. This feels like a never-ending battle!
This video has some “RIGHT NOW” action you can do! Ladies, there’s a bonus. Find out what a man thinks when he’s presented with his marriage record and what you can do.

 

 

Love Is Blind

During our first year of marriage, I recall Hasan trying to hang curtains for me. He was legally blind at the time. He pretended to be able to see much more than he could. He tapped at the wall so gently. I thought he feared damaging the house. He could barely see the wall!! […]